Sattipatthana Sutta: Third Foundation, The Personal and Impersonal from Seattle Insight Meditation on Vimeo.
The personal evolves into the impersonal with time and exposure to awareness. The less "you" do about this process, the quicker it happens on its own. Simply say when a state of mind arises, "Is this about me?" In one way it is, in another way it is not. Be willing to see both tendencies and investigate each.